It means you can ask again, but not that you will get a yes. Perhaps, you asked wrong. Did you ask in front of a bunch of people or when you were alone. Women don't want the world to know you are coming on to them, be discreet.
I would say that a maybe could be a yes. I think you might have caught her offguard and perhaps she didn't want to seem too eager. I've been known to hesitate saying yes right away to a date in fear of being too eager. But then again, a maybe could mean no and she's just too afraid to let you down.
Keep asking her out. If she keeps putting you off say three or more times I would say that she was trying to tell you "no. There are lots of other fish in the sea. If this one doesn't have reciprocal interest, then it is her loss and your freedom to go back and make your own life interesting and meet other people.
Maybe we can talk another time. Good bye. Thanks alot guys, this post helped me alot because I am in a similar situation. The only difference is that I asked her out to dinner; I asked her alone also.
The question I have is how long do you wait before you bring it up again? It was a test. She didn't think to herself, "I am going to test him" but that's not how most tests women throw at us happen anyway. This was a test to see what kind of signals you are going to send her way. You asked her a direct question, and she didn't answer back. Accepting this "non-answer" was showing that you are not a challenge.
You should never let that slide. Get your answer. You don't have to be pushy or rude, but turn it around on her. What do you have going on tomorrow that could possibly be more fun than haning out with me? But, in your case, I'd say she just needs to think about it. So, let her think, and come Wednesday, you'll get your answer.
I hope I was able to help you. Good luck to you! Dude, she is blowing you off. Have some dignity and move on. SandInMyHair Xper 4. A lot of girls say maybe so they don't seem desperate to go out. I actually have a friend who would never say yes right off the bat and just prefers to be coy from the beginning. If you are really honest with your interpretation of the eye contact and the big smiles from her, I think she really does want to go out with you.
The Wednesday follow up may have already happened, but if not, be confident when you ask her again, as if you expect her to say yes. If she continues to say maybe, give her a big grin, compliment her frequently and never ask her out again. More than one maybe is just a game. Sign Up Now! Related Questions. Show All. What does "maybe" mean in girl talk?
Does "maybe" mean yes or no? What does maybe mean? I asked for a second date and she replied with "yeah maybe", what does this mean? Sort Girls First Guys First. Very few if any females will be honest about this it extends to when you ask her for a second date too! I believe it's because society norms and traditional gender roles are always tell girls to not upset anyone, just as us guys are conditioned to not share our feelings lest be ridiculed as a pussy.
To me, it's bullshit. I can handle you saying no, I'm a big boy. I will politely thank you and move it on down the road. Maybe, well I'm real busy, blah blah. Anything but 'no' and we still believe we have a chance. Ashewark Xper 5. It sounds like she wanted to say yes, but maybe she is trying to draw it out a little bit? Maybe she thought it would make her look too easy if she just agreed right away. If she was all smiles, don't be too freaked out though. Smiling is a good sign, so hopefully she will give you a yes next time you see her!
I used to know a guy who did that all the time. It drove me crazy, he would always say 'maybe' or 'idk yet'.. Whenever I asked what he meant by 'maybe' he told me 'maybe is maybe. I'm not saying yes and I'm not saying no. But in reality it's called playing hard to get.
You did the right thing by not asking anymore, she can do the asking from now on. AshleyL Xper 6. I say maybe means a yes, but that you need to work for it a little more. Saying maybe means we're interested but you need to ask us again. Although there is the chance that maybe can mean no but we are trying to be nice about it.
Those are my thoughts, hope that helps. That's one hell of a question my friend, I've always wondered that myself. You can get this girl to date you, you can have sex with her and you can have a relationship with her. In most cases, she will simply be testing your confidence to see if you will doubt yourself, or she will testing to see how much you like her.
Either way, you have to remain confident and focus on making her feel attracted to you. In some ways you feel that it would have been better if she had just said no, because this way you would know. A whole range of emotions rage within you and you decide to react. However, this is the point where you can make or break the potential relationship and it is all dependent on what you do next. If you still want to get that date with her then above all else DO NOT do any of the following things:.
Getting angry with her and shouting is the quickest way to blow your chances with her. Maintain a cool head at all times. Behaving like an insecure little boy is a definite turn off. Insecurity is the behavior displayed by lower ranking males and is definitely not they way that alpha males behave. Women are attracted to alpha males and if you react with insecurity she will definitely walk away… for ever.
There is nothing attractive about a man who begs or nags and if you want her to run, this is the best way to achieve it. Begging is a sure sign of a lack of self esteem and women are attracted to confident men… period. What does maybe mean in a text message? What does maybe some other time mean? Should I ask her out again if she said she was busy? What is the meaning of some other time? Will catch up with you some other time? What to say when you want to catch up with someone? Do you want to catch up meaning?
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